Don't expect to be motivated everyday.
You won't be. Don't count on motivation. Count on Discipline.
If you're like most people, you've probably been told at some point in your life that all you need to be successful is motivation. It’s simple, right? :) Yet, motivation is fickle. It's like that fair-weather friend who shows up when times are good but is nowhere to be found when you're struggling. Instead, count on discipline and consistency.
Motivation vs. Discipline
Motivation is a powerful force that can kickstart a new project, get us through a difficult period, or help us meet a deadline. However, relying solely on motivation can set us up for failure.
It's a fleeting emotion, driven by external factors and even our internal mood swings. You might feel motivated after listening to a riveting TED talk or reading an inspirational book, but what happens when that initial thrill fades?
That’s right, it disappears.
The Consistency of Discipline
Discipline, on the other hand, is all about consistency and long-term focus.
It’s the commitment to doing the work, day in and day out, whether you feel like it or not. Discipline doesn't care about your mood, the weather, or even if you’re overwhelmed with other commitments.
Discipline keeps you on track, ensuring that you meet your goals and continue to make progress. I owe much of my productivity to being well disciplined.
Practical Steps for Building Discipline
Start Small
The good news is you don't need to make drastic changes overnight to get more disciplined.
Instead, start with small, achievable tasks that align with your larger goals. As I like to say: first do it, then do it right, then do it better.
Maybe it's setting aside 30 minutes every day to work on a project, or waking up 15 minutes earlier to plan your day.
Create a Routine
Routine is discipline’s best friend.
Once something becomes part of your daily routine, it’s far less likely that you’ll skip it. Habits, systems…anything that helps you “build” a routine for consistency is great.
That's why setting up a structured day can be so effective in building discipline. Allocate specific times for specific tasks, and stick to it.
Hold Yourself Accountable
Whether it's a buddy system, a coach, or even an app, find a way to hold yourself accountable. Check in regularly, and evaluate your progress.
Make adjustments as needed, but remain committed to your routine.
Embrace the Bumps
You’re going to hit bumps on the road to discipline. Illness, family emergencies, or even a bad day can throw you off your routine.
The key is not to get discouraged. Acknowledge the bump, and get right back on track.
The Real World Benefits of Discipline
Imagine being a software developer knee-deep in a complex project.
Motivation may have gotten you excited about solving a problem, but it's discipline that will see you through those debugging nightmares through to a solution.
Conclusion
Motivation can light the fire, but it's discipline that keeps it burning.
Whether you're pursuing a career goal, learning a new skill, or simply striving to be better each day, it's discipline that will carry you across the finish line.
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I think purpose plays a big role here - with a purpose you believe it the ups and downs of one's mood hold less sway.